If the friendship is going nowhere, then you must jump ship...

If the friend-SHIP is going nowhere, then you must jump SHIP...

Sometimes I ponder about all of the people that have entered and exited in this phenomenon I call my life and how different my life is now compared to what it used to be.

Yea we all grow up and move on and yea i'm very satisfied with my small circle of friends but I can't help but think about how much I have recycled friends in the past.

It happened naturally and reflecting on it now I understand the importance of attraction as far as attracting healthy and toxic relationships.

If your energy is predominantly negative, you are most likely going to attract negative, toxic relations.

Its just universal law...

Therefore, I try to stay positive now and exhibit high standards for any type of relationship

But i'm still working on how to foresee certain caveats of a negative relationship with people because usually    I am way too nice and assume others are the same which leads to me eventually being hurt in the end.

Or

People will enter into my life temporarily and I will somehow be aware of this but yet I still allow myself to emotionally succumb to that person and over trust them.

Over trusting is dangerous

I need to learn how to counteract those emotions without becoming emotionless, stoic, aloof, you know what I mean

So instead of being so optimistic and trying to pick up the pieces and make things work, i'm learning how to let go. Its not necessary to hold on to rotten relationships. If that person really wants to be in my life they will fight to be in it because I know I will.